Solely Committed

Relationships

Al Cambric

And Why They Fail

Not Because a Lack of Love

Sure, Committed Relationships need love. But, love only guarantees one thing: that it won't hurt us on purpose. But often, it does hurt us on accident. Think about it. What's the one big similarity between causing someone's death on purpose verses on accident? Answer: Either way, that person's dead. For this reason, a lack of love cannot be the key reason these relationships fail.

Not Due to a Lack of Respect

Respect isn't just a man's thang. Women need it just the same. Truth is...respect is more of an individual need than it is a gender need. But even a lack of respect isn't the main reason Committed Relationships fail?

Not Because of a Lack Intimacy

Intimacy is a biggie! Commitment without heart-felt closeness feels like a job you only show up to 'cause you've got bills. Leaving you feeling vulnerable to other job offers that promise more. Then you wonder how it ever got this bad? And that's the question this blog intends to answer. Because a lack of intimacy isn't the root problem, either.

This is often one of the first to come up when Committed Relationships are failing. But it shouldn't be. People almost never stop communicating in Committed Relationships. What often happens is they stop communicating effectively or they never did. And like our body does when one limb is injured, the opposing limb picks up the slack. Often, love is that opposing limb. But even love gets tired of pulling the other limb's weight. But there's a reason the other limb is injured. Find out why and you've got the root cause.

Not Because a Lack of Communication

Not Even Because of Money Woes

Financial lack can be a major source of discontentment and tension in Committed Relationships. And it must be given significant and urgent attention when it exists. But having wealth or plenty of money can cause just as much tension or discontentment in these relationships, too? Just a different kind. Therefore, as critical as this category is, it doesn't begin to compete with the real root cause of Committed Relationship failure.

All are mere symptoms of the root cause

NO RESPECT

NO INTIMACY

LACK OF LOVE

NO COMMUNICATION

MONEY WOES

THE REAL REASON COMMITTED RELATIONSHIPS FAIL IS...

DRUM ROLL...PLEASE!

Welcome to Soley Committed Relationships. The blog where I expose the damaging and often irreparable effects Human Nature Dynamics have on Committed Relationships. Why is that last statement so profound?

Hi, I'm Al Cambric

MORE ABOUT Al

Because often, we unwittingly label the symptoms of Human Nature Dynamics as the root cause of committed relationship failure rather than acknowledging that these dynamics exist and that they are the root cause of committed relationship failure and not their symptoms.

My goal is to educate couples in committed relationships and those who dream of one day being in one about such dynamics, as well as how and why they exist, how they adversely affect relationships, and how to avoid them if possible. My hope is that many will be able to mend their relationship and or avoid such subversive and intrusive tendencies, yielding a profitable understanding that leads to a more harmonious union.